Ben and I met on eHarmony believe it or not. I will take credit for making the first move as I messaged him first. We had our first date at a bar in downtown Ft. Worth. We sat and talked for hours just laughing and getting to know each other. Before we both knew it, it was 5 hours later and the bar was closing. After that night both of us knew something special had happened. We basically started spending all of our time together and became each others best friends. I knew, within the first month, that I was going to marry Ben. I just felt something in my gut that was telling me he was going to be my husband someday. We fell for each other pretty quickly, and within four months we were engaged.